GOOD SEX ADVICE, FROM THE INTERNET:
First off, good sex is mental, or somthing's wrong. Your first
experience will
usually give you a less than totally wonderful result. Read
how foreplay is supposed
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to begin. See how most men just selfishly ignore a woman's
urgings.
This will give you a measuring stick, and hope for the future.
It's conversation
as it happened, and if read aloud, will be understandable.
Now...
Woman: this is Ed, Pam's husband
GENTLE WAR:Hi Ed
Woman: Pam's right here though
GENTLE WAR: S'ok
GENTLE WAR: Jus say'n hi
Woman: i just need the practice typing
GENTLE WAR: Good!
Woman: what yu up to?
GENTLE WAR: I hv 2 do it left handed
Woman: tonight
Woman: why, are jacking off with the other? lol (laugh out
loud)
GENTLE WAR: Got hit by car
Woman: sorry
GENTLE WAR: Was funny!
GENTLE WAR: No prob!
GENTLE WAR: Relax
Woman: that makes it hard to jerk off
GENTLE WAR: NTHNG BTHRS ME
GENTLE WAR: Dnt hve 2
GENTLE WAR: Married 2
Woman: not even when a girl bites your dick?
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GENTLE WAR: No!
Woman: lol
GENTLE WAR: No girls here
Woman: sorry its the newly wed thing no know
GENTLE WAR: Love it!!!
GENTLE WAR: Hve a grt time!!!
GENTLE WAR: Life is so good!!
Woman: Pam doesn't bite she gooooddddd
Woman: lol
GENTLE WAR: Tell you sumthng good 2?
GENTLE WAR: Or ru shy?
Woman: what tell me
Woman: im not shy
GENTLE WAR: We have sex all the time. Drp o hat!
Woman: whos we ?
GENTLE WAR: K, here's one 4 u
GENTLE WAR: Sue & I
GENTLE WAR: We?
GENTLE WAR: Sue's my woman!
GENTLE WAR: Loves this!
Woman: cool Pam likes sex too
GENTLE WAR: Touch lips 2 sensitive areas
GENTLE WAR: Lightly
Woman: k
Woman: and?
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GENTLE WAR: Then slide, & suck air hard
Woman: lol
Woman: i like it
GENTLE WAR: Feels great
Woman: yep
Woman: tell me more
GENTLE WAR: Then when tongue on clit
GENTLE WAR: Hummmm!!!! Loud!!!!
Woman: she really likes that
GENTLE WAR: She'll go thru the roof!!!
Woman: Pam likes it up the ass
GENTLE WAR: Yes! Nver tried yet, but coming
GENTLE WAR: Many do
GENTLE WAR: Many that let it happen
GENTLE WAR: "The best!" Judy tol me
Woman: Pam likes to put dildo up her pussy while i lick her
ass hole
GENTLE WAR: Whn examined once, a woman Dr put her glove up
my ass
GENTLE WAR: It felt pretty good. I was surprised
Woman: Hey D... Its Pamela now... And I just want you 2 know
Im disgusted
Woman: Ed went to take a cold shwer
GENTLE WAR: Why?
Woman: LOL
Woman: oh Im playing
GENTLE WAR: YUK YUK!
Woman: But he DID just leave
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GENTLE WAR: No prob
GENTLE WAR: This is getting very interesting!
GENTLE WAR: How's married life?
Woman: ROFL.. it sounded like it... (roll on floor laughing)
Woman: You two should talk more... You MIGHT teach Ed a few
things...
GENTLE WAR: It's new 2 me, tlkin bout it
GENTLE WAR: Why, dsn't sund shy 2 me
Woman: really?
GENTLE WAR: Scroll back
Woman: yeah.. but for some reason we havent played around too
much in taht
area yet
GENTLE WAR: What?
GENTLE WAR: How old is he?
Woman: although I know he has... been witha bout double the
amount of women
that you have
Woman: just turned 30
GENTLE WAR: Most guys are full of shit and lie. Average is
8-12 women over a
lifetime.
Woman: tell him something for me... OK?
GENTLE WAR: Was married 13 yrs
GENTLE WAR: k
GENTLE WAR: What?
Woman: Foreplay is the way to go with women... (see dictionary)
Woman: ;-)
GENTLE WAR: Of course
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Woman: well.. i don't think he knows how
Woman: I get turned on easy and he thinks that's enough
GENTLE WAR: Most sex 5 min only
Woman: (feel like Im talking to a sex therapist) ROFL
GENTLE WAR: 95% hve 5 min sex
Woman: LOL
GENTLE WAR: Sad 2
Woman: I agree
GENTLE WAR: Ask other wmn
Woman: longer the better... But a quickie int he afternoon
is fun too
GENTLE WAR: K, will write him a letter
Woman: LOL... send to Woman and call it TO ED!!
GENTLE WAR: YES, BUT NOT ALWAYS
Woman: i agree
GENTLE WAR: How long u2, 4 sex?
GENTLE WAR: 1.5 hr norml
Woman: Oh no... adverage is about 15 mins....
Woman: OUR adverage
GENTLE WAR: Real poor!
GENTLE WAR: Will give advice. Want?
Woman: YES PLEASE
GENTLE WAR: Tlk bout it
Woman: Ive told him what to do.. but... just doesn't seem to
afect anything
GENTLE WAR: Mst men r afraid of failure
GENTLE WAR: They feel their needs strongly
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GENTLE WAR: Nstnct is 2 go in & out
GENTLE WAR: Side 2 side or round & round prevents premature
orgasm
Woman: well.. that's another problem.. Never had one of those
Woman: You get an ear full yet?
GENTLE WAR: Whats?
Woman: let me know when youve had enough
Woman: LOL
Woman: Orgasn
Woman: m
GENTLE WAR: No premature?
Woman: HIM? yes
Woman: Me never had one
GENTLE WAR: Nver had orgasm?
Woman: yes,,, never,,,
Woman: well.. 2wce
Woman: but never with someone else
GENTLE WAR: Ok, here's how
GENTLE WAR: Ready?
Woman: (is this too personal)?
GENTLE WAR: No
Woman: ok.. tell
GENTLE WAR: OK, will tell u wht 2 do b4 he gets home. Is tht
pssble? B4 he
gets there?
Woman: he;s in the shower
Woman: go ahead
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GENTLE WAR: Do you have time before he gets home evryday?
GENTLE WAR: Self-stimulation as a warm up, get naked and lay
on a bed
GENTLE WAR: Touch your fngrs lghtly 2 ur breasts
GENTLE WAR: LIKE FEATHERS
GENTLE WAR: Walk 4 fngrs as u drag them vry lightly 2 ur nipples
GENTLE WAR: Wlkn 4ward, as u drg bckwrds
Woman: I C
GENTLE WAR: Pinch ur nipples 2 feel good
GENTLE WAR: One hnd up, other dwn 2 ur stmch, 2 junction o
leg & body
GENTLE WAR: Flutter ur nipples, fingers apart
GENTLE WAR: Good during sex 2
GENTLE WAR: U on top best
GENTLE WAR: Control urs then
GENTLE WAR: Side 2 side best, & u on top, he can't go in
& out
GENTLE WAR: Best way
GENTLE WAR: I like it
GENTLE WAR: U cntrl when 2 start
Woman: intresting D
GENTLE WAR: Make it a game
GENTLE WAR: Tell him 2 b on the bottom
GENTLE WAR: Say ur not in the mood, but playing around'd make
u feel like it
GENTLE WAR: Then foreplay is his idea
GENTLE WAR: It takes frm 5-20 min 4 all wmn 2 be truly hot!
GENTLE WAR: Ask him, doesn't he think it's a good idea 2 make
you happy?
GENTLE WAR: Then u'll wnt sex all the time
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GENTLE WAR: Good sex is under ur control
GENTLE WAR: Mst men dn't hve the faintest ideas
Woman: this is Ed she went to bed all wet she says bye .(sexually
excited
through self stimulation as she read my words.)
GENTLE WAR: Later!
Technique and caring must compliment each other. If he doesn't
give a shit, he
only cares about how good it feels to him. Ed and Pam are no
longer a couple.
You can see how Pam spoke to me about Ed just ignoring her
requests. If she
had made DEMANDS OR NO MORE SEX, do you think things might
have changed?
Perhaps, but probably not, if the man is just a selfish jerk.
Many women marry
for money, then pay for their error. Prostituting yourself
for security?
WHAT'S THE BEST WAY TO HANDLE SEX?
Watch what you are doing to yourself. You will have no idea
what's going on. I
speak of what “G” did to herself in school.
She slept with every date. Went out every weekend with a different
guy.
Pretty soon no one would look at her in school for fear that
people'd think she knew
them!
See the girl w/no legs. Screwed every date so boys'd take her
out. Many would
not even buy her a soda, just take her and fuck her. Her sister
had to get her off a
fence finally.
A guy just fucked her there, & left her hanging! All that
you sleep with brag to all
their friends! They tell everything, & blow it up so you
look like a slut! Makes them big
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men w/their friends.
A mother talked to me about her daughter going to a motel room
w/a male
teacher. He lied to the girl & told her how great she looked
w/her makeup.
She looked like a clown! Had no idea what she was doing, but
was entranced
by his BULLSHIT He fucked her & she was only 14.
Men think w/their dicks. Don't ask any of them unless you want
more lies! If
you screw up ur rep, live this shit down very carefully. Transfer
to another school if u
can. Leave ur "slut rep" behind. Or you'll never know who you
can trust. Ok?
If you want promiscious sex from lots of guys, you were probably
molested and
you may not even remember. Seek therapy or have a very screwed
up life!
See the table of contents:SAFETY*-THERAPIST CHOICE or get a
secretive, abusive
therapist.
But back to sex. OK, 1st, you have to know what is pleasurable,
so you can
teach your partner. He won't care, or have the foggiest notion
it is important!
The first thing in TEACHING, is LEARNING WHAT TO TEACH. So
how ?
Practice on yourself. You have to do this in private, at a
time when you won't be
disturbed. You figure out where. Privacy's absolutely crucial!
You need to be able to
relax, & let go.
IF YOUR PARENTS TOLD YOU MASTURBATION WAS DIRTY,
THEY WERE WRONG!
“BC” Is normal, and does it with a dildo (fake
penis), and her finger, when she
wakes, and goes to bed.
“G” used a carefully peeled and cleaned carrot
covered with a rubber for a dildo.
“It's too cold out of the refrigerator!” she told
me. So “Use hot water to warm it first!”
came with my apology for not thinking of it before.
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The point being, masturbation is a very normal part of being
a human being. If
your parents made you feel bad about it, THEY WERE VERY WRONG!!!
ALL MALES DO IT! OR THEY LIE ABOUT IT. STRESS CAUSES IT!
IMAGINE THE PRESIDENT WITH HIS DICK IN HIS HAND?
